User Profile

I am the Alpha Male looking for his grrl. I am the man in the room at parties people are gathered around. I am the one people go to when something HAS to be done and done right!

I am open and honest all the way, and you are honest with yourself as much you are with those around you. I know who and what I am looking for and so are you... I have not the time, or desire, to deal with the sort that is all talk, but does not want to take things to the next level of getting out of the imaginary world of this site and meet for coffee or dinner/drinks and see if there is a real connection there.

I am the type that takes care of myself both physically and mentally. I am confident, intelligent, and funny. I enjoy life and look for those special moments in the every day where it's possible to break out from ones daily grind and do something unique and new. I want these same characteristics in my submissive.

I am looking for someone who hopefully also has BDSM is in their blood, regardless of their level of experience! Maybe your just curious, maybe your tired of the Same Old Thing, but one thing is for certain... Vanilla just doesn't, and can't, do it for you anymore!

I am a Jovial Top, who likes to laugh and play and joke and smile. You will also be wanting to have a good time, and know that BDSM play is not always about being the Ultimate Dom and Perfect Sub. Head space is great, but sometimes it's great to Just Have Fun and fuck-all the mind-games and stereo-types.

I am a Master and a Gentleman. I have a life that I love and have found myself in a place that I can now share that with others, a new bottom and / or submissive... perhaps that will be you...

I am best described by friends and co-workers as easy going and funny. I'm an avid motorcyclist. I work in the tech industry, but I am no geek! I like to have fun. I am a 6'3" 235lb Wookie with big arms, a strong back, and a booming voice.

I am also happily married. Married, yes ma'am, so... why do I appear to be searching for a grrl... simple, the wife finally said I should. There are a few areas in our physical relationship where she's uncomfortable or just doesn't enjoy. Nothing bad, just basic differences. Examples: She responds with violence to getting a smack on the ass in the heat of the moment and practically breaks into panic attacks if restrained! She likes things to be soft, which I also enjoy, but there is a time for something more. Her idea of a perfect evening is lovemaking followed by an hour long massage until she falls asleep. Nothing wrong with that, it's fun for me to, but... there is also a time and place for things to be a little bit more rough and fast, not to mention if I don't get to give somebody a good spanking every now and again I'd likely go insane. While I may have married a Vanilla Wife, she knew who I was and I knew who she was. We may not have the most traditional of relationships, but it works for us. We won't judge you, don't you judge us!

My search is the attempt to find middle ground where everyone is happy and satisfied. I mean c'mon... how many guys actually admit to being married, much less happily, and are out in the open publicly (as well as with his wife) searching for someone... I am fortunately graced by having a loving wife who knows she can not meet all of my needs. I love her more than anything, and would not, could not, betray her... so if your looking for someone to steal away, bug off, as my relationship with her is my foundation in life!

It may not exactly be "traditional"... but it works for us!

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